Ghosting is an unfortunate, yet common, part of dating, if it has happened to you, we’re here to help that guy regret ghosting you.
The best way to make a guy regret ghosting you is to be unbothered by being ghosted. Moving on to better things and better people would be the best course of action, but if you’d also like to leave a lasting impression, here are some ways to make a guy regret ghosting you.
Before we get into how to make him regret his decision, remember that it’s not your fault and the fact that he couldn’t communicate with you is a huge red flag. Don’t let this shake your confidence because he’s not worth the time and energy.
What is Ghosting?
Ghosting is when someone ends all types of communication without an explanation. A guy who disappears without any apparent warning and completely ignores your calls and messages is known as a ghost. In simple words, the person doesn’t care enough about the situation to bother giving a reason for no longer talking to you or the person is afraid to hurt your feelings.
What to Say to the Guy Who Ghosted You?
If you have something to say to the guy who ghosted you, text yourself or your friend those words and send him nothing. If you think he is ghosting you, there is no reason to give him anything he has not earned. He thinks you are disposable, don’t make yourself available to him by reaching out. He doesn't deserve you so no more texting or calling him.
How to Make a Guy Regret Ghosting You
1. Move On
Show him that since he left, you are better off and it did not affect you. It is hard to mask your feelings and act this way but you are truly better off. Once he sees this, he will begin regretting his decision, realizing he lost someone important. This will show him that you're perfectly okay and he did not hurt you like he is used to making others feel.
3. Be Unavailable to Him
He might think he can come back into your life, do not give in. Do not make yourself available for him. If he wants to meet you, tell him you're busy or that it's a bad time. Ghosts will try anything and everything to persuade you or come up with excuses as to why they didn't respond. He does not deserve a second chance, he is the one who left you.
4. Use Social Media
Use social media to your advantage. He will be left wondering where you are and what you are doing. He may resort to social media to try and understand what you're feeling and what you have been up to. If you want to show him you really are okay, maintain the same social presence you had before meeting him or before he ghosted you.
5. Find a New Partner
You are free and single so, start dating other people. Show him you are irreplaceable by finding someone else. Don't just go for anyone, still look for a real connection. And when sees you with someone else or catches wind of it, he will likely regret ghosting you.
Do Guys Regret Ghosting You?
Guys can definitely regret ghosting you but it might not be because they are truly interested in you, they honestly might have just run out of other options. If a guy really wants to be with you, he won’t ghost you. In some cases, the guy could’ve been talking to someone else and wanted to see where it was going with the other person but if he really respected you, he would communicate that. And, anyway, you don’t want to be someone’s second option.
Will a Guy Come Back After Ghosting You?
Yes, he will likely come back after ghosting you, unless he’s found someone else, but being with someone who ghosted you is not worth it. Whatever the reason is for him ghosting you and leaving you, when he returns, you are his second option. He is more than likely going to do this again to you so if you want to give him a second chance, take control and be prepared for him potentially ghosting you again.
Beating the dead horse.
Block him out and show no interest in him, he doesn't exist. Show that you have not lost anything and you are, in fact, happy without him. Focus on yourself and try to find the right person for you.
Lastly, before following these steps, be sure he is actually ghosting you. If you start acting like you’re not interested and he isn’t ghosting you, you may lose the potential connection.
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